To all women raising a baby alone
, Stop calling your self a single mother. Stop looking for a father for your baby and get the father involved. Is it really hard to get him committed to his own flesh and blood or is pride allowing you to let him be?
Every black man is a baby, he needs to be nurtured into doing what's right. Black mouths are loud and black eyes are quick to judge things they know nothing about, you will be labelled (crazy baby mama) but black child don't stop, don't entertain his girlfriend or wife for they are not the father but if they are supporting you into turning him into a responsible man then high five to the Black Queen.
Don't curse and fight him for you will plant hate and anger in the innocent blood. Every black child deserves the warmth and love of their father irregardless of who says what. Your child says papa? Don't hesitate to call him even though you know he might not pick up. You don't have to play both roles in the child's life. You already have enough on your plate. He was never there from day one of your pregnancy but baby girl the baby is here now so hit up his phone. Give him a hand in being a responsible donor, he donated now he needs to be thanked so make him aware of the donation. Black girl you are not crazy or desperate noooo don't listen to them they are the ones who are crazy and desperate for being up in your business. You didn't create that baby alone there for you ain't got to suffer alone. He is the father let him play his part,teach him now so he won't come to play the part 15 years later. But black girl don't be too busy teaching him how to be a father that you end up forgeting how to let another man who's meant to love you ,love you .
You are not a crazy baby mama for refusing to let him slip away from his responsibility, you are a Black girl that Rocks!♡ Take care of yourself while you are taking care of your child. Most single moms make the mistake of putting themselves last and ignoring their happiness because they are filling in gaps that the father of their kids left in their kids lives. You can be a good mother to your children while being a good wife to the man that married and loved you with your children. Allow him to be a good father to the kids without feeling like you are burdening him. He loved you enough to marry you so stop looking for gaps to fill. Just be happy and everything else will fall into place.
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