Many parents groom their kids into future wives and husbands. It is every parent's dream to see their child enter into a new life with their significant other.
A lot is celebrated on the day,not only is it the couple getting married's big day but the couple's parents celebrate the loudest. Most people still believe that any child who marries or gets married symbolises that they come from a good home with great morals.
Much as people do not want to admit but being married somewhat earns you some sort of respect from the society. Someone who is married is treated with more respect than someone who is not married. That is honestly the sad battle we are yet to win.
Truth is marriage looks beautiful when you are on the other side of it, people have so much expectations from other people's marriages. Asanda did everything right in life. She is a Doctor married to her high school sweetheart who is also a Doctor,his name is Vusi.
They own a beautiful mansion at one of the classiest and most expensive estates of Johannesburg. They had an amazing wedding that even made it to Top billing.
People expected them to get married,so when it happened it was all joy. Now they have been married for 5 years and together for 17 years. After marriage, a baby is usually the next expected gesture. Everyone envied them until they started wondering why they don't have kids yet. Many refused to believe it's by choice.Infertility in marriage is such a huge taboo in African cultures, the eldest want nothing to do with adoption. Being married is great but only if the decisions made in the marriage are decisions made by the couple. Family,friends and the society should not in anyway influence any decision in one's marriage.
Infertility has broken many marriages. When you are married prioritise your happiness and that of your significant other first and far most. Infertility is an issue of yesterday with so many options to choose from. If you want a child but can't have it the natural way, you are spoiler for choice with endless options.
As Doctolrs the couple is equipped with knowledge and when they are ready they will start with the procedures that will enable them to be parents and continue living happily ever after.
Most married couples silently go through miscarriages, they go through so much pressure and stress to have kids and when anxiety strikes they experience losses they can't even talk about.
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