Mamazala I am the cause of all my baby daddy's misfortunes and now my Sangoma is mentally ill and he told the whole world what I asked him to do for me.
No man wants me now, I am literaly stuck with my mentaly ill baby daddy for pleasure. I am forced to do the deeds with a man who eats my underwear and laughs like I'm tickling him when we do the deeds, he even drools all the way till we are done.
But I have noticed that he also has those needs because whenever he wants to do the deeds he looks for me everywhere even at my workplace and then just starts dancing like a stripper infront of the whole office.
He goes around telling everyone about our bedroom business and makes the sounds that I make during the deeds. People in the township I forever laughing at me ngi ijoke.
I regret the day I went to see that Sangoma. My friend who took me there has distant herself from me. I met my baby daddy when we were still in high school and all was well and we were inlove.
We always spoke our dreams and goals. We were in the same class. We studied together, we were envied by many. Couples dated and broke up but we remained.
I fell pregnant in Matric, 4 months before final exams. He was very supportive, we studied together despite people mocking me and all. He stood firm by my side.
We both passed, I got an Higher certificate because I had a lot of morning sickness and he got a Bachelor. My parents made up their mind that I was going to stay home until I give birth.
He went to University, I was happy for him but sad that I was getting left behind. I have birth and stayed home to look after the baby. I noticed that he was changing when the baby turned 6months. His phone would be off at night.
We only spoke during the day and on weekends we wouldn't talk at all. He made me believe that school work was a lot. The year finally ended and he came home.
When he got home he always came up with excuses not to spend time with us, when he would come he would constantly be on his phone. When I asked him how come when he is at school his phone is never on but when he is home he checks the phone every two minutes. His respond was that he is checking his results.
A new year began and he went bact to university and I went back to repeat grade 12. We drifted apart completely, we no longer spoke on the phone and I realised that he had blocked me on all his social media.
He didn't dump me, he just stopped communicating. I created a fake account and found that he was posting a new girl, he had forgotten all about us. He had this beautiful girl and I was very hurt. Everyone in the township knew except me.
He tagged the girl so I stalked her and found that we had so many mutual friends and it's people from eloction. I was hurt and embarrassed. Even his sisters would comment on the girl's status bathi Makoti wethu.
I felt like the world was closing up on me. The chest pain I felt that day, I immediately even felt like I was HIV positive right there and then. I kept calling baby daddy until I found him. When I confronted him he told me to date people my age, I am a high scholar I should date high school guy.
He said he is in varsity now he can't be dating someone in high school, what would we talk about? The girl took the phone and asked me to stop disturbing them, I asked her if she knew that we had a child, she said she also has a child and a child is not a marriage certificate.
They hung up on me and I stopped bothering them. I was waiting for him to come home so that we can fix things, I loved him and would do anything to win him back.
He eventually came home in December and he apologised so we fixed things. January came and he left again. I passed Matric with a Bachelor this time, but my parents forced me to study in the university in our province so that I can come home to take care of the child on weekends.
He was in a different province. He went back to his old ways of ignoring me and posting his varsity girlfriend. He had never posted the baby and I. Whenever he would come home we continued our relationship.
He finaly graduated and on his graduation party he came home with the varsity girlfriend. He told me infront of her that they are getting married next year and that I should move on.
Indeed he proposed to her at his graduation party infront of all our neighbors, friends, families and former classmates. I almost had a heart attack. I was sick for a while from a heartbreak.
A friend of mine told me about a Sangoma who can help me win my baby daddy back and I did not even think twice about it. To cut the long story short the Sangoma started seducing me and asking me out. When I refused he pretended to be helping me get my baby daddy back, although he had nothing positive to say about him I was desperate.
I didn't think that he would give me something to mess his mind up. I used the muti next thing my baby daddy was Mentally ill. The Sangoma was apperently known for liking woman and if they refuse to do the deeds with him then he gives them a wrong muti.
Someone must have dealt with him too because he is now also lost his mind. He goes around telling people the things he did. He exposed me too and my friend also supported his statement, she made it look like I did it on purpose.
My life is in shambles and I am suffering. I work at sassa offices and I am a joke.
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