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Hospital switched babies


My husband filed for divorce after he secretly had a DNA done on our last born. As suspected they came out negative, he was not the biological father. That made me do the tests between the baby and I because I have never slept with anyone besides my husband.

I had concluded that someone maybe had their way with me in my sleep because none of that made sense. The tests on my side also came back negative. My husband had already left me and his family had insulted me and my family. 

My older kids 14 and 10 were caught in the crossfire and traumatized. The only thing that made sense was that it could be the hospital switch. I opened a case although my heart bled for the little girl I've loved and raised for the past 5 years. My husband had to do the tests because the baby didn't look like him nor me or our other kids.

I finally gathered strength to tell my husband that the baby he is divorcing me for is also not mine and the sad part now is that the lady he has been living with since he left me is now pregnant. I don't think I'll ever accept him back nor forgive him for moving on too fast and not believing me the many times I tried explaining to him that I have never crossed him. 

His family? I want nothing to do with them, they fueled the separation and also found the now woman in his life for him. I pleaded and begged them to believe me but I got insults and curses from them,words I'll never forget. My children and I are now seeing a therapist. The little one doesn't even understand what is happening and it breaks my heart. I cry each time I look at her, how can such a beautiful innocent baby be the center of such a heartbreaking life.

I have made peace with the fact that my marriage is over and now we are just working together and with the police to find our daughter. I would like to have my daughter back but I wish to keep my given daughter too although I know it might not happen and I will not be selfish about it. If they take her away I'll accept that but I'd like to continue being in her life. If the people who have my daughter also want to continue being in my daughter's life then I will gladly accept it. 

Bonds were built and it's the kind of bond that can never be broken. I just wish for this case to be solved so that this can be in the past. I am drained and I'm now on anti depressant.