I and my husband are living with my motherin law and sick father in law for many years now with 3 kids,his sisters are the ones carrying the family my husband is not working but am doing business.My problem is that my motherin law pets my husband (first son)
I don't like the way he is idle in the house leaving all financial responsibility to his sisters but his others brothers are hussling but he is not borderd ,we always quarrelling ,but his mother is doing nothing about this.His sisters will insult me because they are the ones providing financial support.
I have told my husband that he should stand as a man and Hussle let's join hand together and rent a house and leave because am no longer comfortable he became angry and later told his mum and they began to battle me.
I became their enemy to cut the story short his brother started sending him some money he went to the market bought things for himself ,his mum,and the kids excluding me.His mum has been the one cooking for him because he loves her food.
Not that I don't know how to cook,he will give her money to cook and extra while they don't whether I exist at all,if I become angry they will say that for me to stay on my own it means I have money that I should buy my pot and start cooking different,that he will stay with his mum forever.
I have asked his mum why she is doing this to me,she said that she is nothing to me that she suffered to raise him up that she must eat the fruit of her labours.My husband is not even working,staying together with his mum is making him not be responsible.
His other brothers are staying on their own and now with the small business am doing am trying to see if we can move out,so he could be far from her.His mum makes decisions for him, whatever I tell,he tells his mum.he is no longer sleeping with me in the room since all this drama of lets rent house started,
I forgot some things in their village when he travelld there for 4times and I called him to inform him to bring them for me he agreed ,coming back he brought his mums items but didn't bring mine,I was very angry with him but he doesn't care.
Please has any one being in this condition before,I have been thinking if his mum is controlling him spiritually,am legally a married woman pls help me
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