HE GOT DUMPED FOR BEING BROKE AND NOW HE BATHES WITH HIS EX'S FAVOURITE DRINKS

If there's one thing that will motivate you to be better and do better in this life time I promise you a break up is one of them.

Hi please keep me anonymous

We need help for my cousin. My cousin dated his high school sweetheart for many years and when they were done with high school she went to live in a different city with her parents.

Before moving she used to live in the village with her grandparents and as soon as she was done with high school she moved. We come from a very underprivileged family and we only rely on my grandmother's social grant money.

I managed to get a cleaning job atleast now I am also able to contribute here and there but I also have a child so my contribution is not much. My cousin who is 20 now has become a total mess. I think he has even lost his mind honestly.

A few months back his long term sweetheart dumped him and he has since became someone very irresponsible. We understand that he can't imagine his life without her but you can't Force love.

The ex now lives at the city so obviously she has met someone she considers her type and decided to dump my cousin. My cousin is an orphan and was raised by my grandmother.

After being dumped for being broke now he is working part time jobs and with his earnings instead of helping out at home he has resorted to buying his ex's favourite snacks and drinks just to take pictures and post.

The other day he bought coke and poured it on his head saying it's too hot. Then bought milk and washed his face with it saying it's good for the skin and not for the stomach.

I'm so tired because after wasting food like that he then Cries because we refuse to give him food. But how do we continue feeding someone who doesn't learn? We've tried speaking to him to stop but he is continuously seen posting such every chance he gets money.

We are starting to think that something is terribly wrong with him now because you just can't waste food that you also need. The last stroke was when he gave dogs a full loaf of bread while he himself was starving.

He just wanted to take content but the dogs were hungry too and they ate up the bread and he acted cool on camera then cried like a baby for his bread behind the scene.