Evening Admin please keep me anonymous.
Firstly I'd like to understand why family feel so much entitled to our success wherelse during the struggles they gossip about you and even laugh behind your back. But once you become successful suddenly everyone feels like you owe them something. I saw a confession in one of the confession groups and i completely relate.
I lost three of my kids all of them was due to my family saying I think I am better than everyone in the family. I am the first graduate in the family and I was the first to buy a house in town and also buy a car. My kids went to private schools and for that they were poisoned.
Please help this man before he loses his son. Family is the most dangerous and it's sad that we often trust them more than anyone. Blood had certainly become thinner.These old grannies in our homes are dangerous.
I am a 39 year old successful lawyer, I am from free state but currently reside in Johannesburg. I have a son my one and only child, the reason I stated I am successful is because I flaunt what I have in my son he's 17 years old in private school, I bought him a car last year he drove us to the free state to visit relatives, everyone was shocked they told me I spoil my son, I should've built a house for my aunt with the money I used to buy my son a car, because yes the state of her house is horrible but, why should i? My mother struggled to pay my tuition and none of them helped, I had gone for months without food, they couldn't even send 20 rands, while her daughter was doing just fine in varsity at the time her father was a long distance truck driver so she was taken care of.
I remember my mother calling me crying telling me she decided to sell her house which my father built for her, it was a beautiful house, she has sold the furniture to send me to school but she could find work so she sold the house, after her sister my aunt refused to help, which was supposed to be a loan. And she did sell the house and moved back home and my grandmother would literally send me 300 every month from her pension. I finished my LLB and immediately found a shadowing work and the man was kind he would pay me, that he eventually hired me.
Now I am successful my mother lives in bloemfontein with my grandmother in a estate, I look after people that looked after me, so I told them this, I will never do anything for them or send a cent to them. Well that's when trouble began, after we got back home with my son, he started having nightmares, then he began sleep walking, it's been almost a year now my son has declined performance in school, he is not himself. But worried me that this could be more than medical is when he started sleep walking and talking, he would get up and go outside he says scary things, he says I've got you Remo ( his name is Remoagetse)we'll see how your mother is going to help you, he would go in the kitchen get 🔪and try to hurt himself, I had to lock every sharp object in the house.
He climbed the roof and jumped he broke both his legs and his neck, only a week after he was walking like he didn't break anything at night, without crushes, he tried eating glass, his car burnt out of nowhere it just went up in smoke, now when he sleeps walk his eyes change colour they become black,I have tried all possible as a mother to help him, that he even begged me to just build my aunt a house she'll let him go, that's when I had the realization that it is my aunt that is responsible for my son's condition, I've been everywhere yet no help I don't know anymore, I would go anywhere to help my son. Thank you.
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