Hi Admin please keep me anonymous for safety purposes.
I dated a man I loved with all my heart and he found me with four children. He unfortunately had no children of his own not even from all his previous relationships. We met at varsity where we were both studying the same course.
We fell inlove instantly and both we both know it we were cohabiting. We lived outside res and that's how we ended up living together. We spent way too much time at each other's place that eventually we had moved in together.
I was married when I met the love of my life but I was married to a man I wasn't inlove with. The man I married was my meal ticket and a way out of poverty for my family. He also married me with two kids(my twins) which I had while still in high school.
Then we had two more kids together,also twins. My parents were both twins and that's how I ended up with the mess of four kids. He sent me to school to pursue my dreams and that's how I met the love of my life. I didn't like going back home during school holidays because I was at my happiest when I was at school with the new guy.
Just a few weeks for our graduations,I sat my husband down and told him that I would be moving back home as I no longer want to be in the marriage. My ex husband was a quiet guy who didn't have much of dating in his past. He didn't stop me nor try to fight me. All he said was that he knew I didn't love him but he was hoping that I would learn to love him with time.
He looked broken but he set me free. A few months later I got married to the love of my life and we moved to a different province after I got a job. I got the job before him, a year later he also got a job and we decided to move the kids to come live with us. We bought a house and we were a happy family.
However our happiness was short lived. He changed on me completely. He became abusive emotionally and physically. He would spend many nights without sleeping home. He stopped helping with anything financially and when. I spoke up he would say he won't support so many mouths that he didn't even make.
He became a complete stranger and would only come home whenever he wanted. I soon noticed signs that there was another woman in the picture and it broke me completely. I had mild depression and I wasn't doing well at work aswell and that was putting my job at risk.
A colleague of mine sat me down and asked me what the problem is because she could see that I was not okay. I was losing weight ,when I was by myself I was crying (she caught me three times). I had been bottling things up for so long I needed to vent so I told her everything.
She cried with me and shared her own story aswell but with her it was a thing of the past. She had now fixed her marriage through a sangoma who gave her a love portion and now their marriage is a happy one. No fights and no cheating.
I asked her to take me there and she did. The day we went there I was filled with so much hope and happiness because the man was indeed the love of my life and I missed the old him so much so I wanted him back.
I was given pink water to bath with ,I was told it will restore my positive aura that will attract him. I was given also a love portion that I needed to mix with my saliva and put in his hot food. After consuming that he will listen to everything that my tongue spoke.
Indeed I did all that and within a week he was back to the man I fell inlove with. My only mistake was putting more after realizing that it was working,I gave him more than I should've because I wanted to avoid the process of going back if he relapsed.
Yoh the worst mistake of my life and it's a spell even the sangoma is failing to reverse it. My husband has become extremely clingy and needy. As I write this he has even quit his job and waits for me all day at my workplace from morning till I knock off.
I'm no longer allowed to have a life outside my marriage. He follows me everywhere,always wants to be on my phone. Even when I'm at work and he's outside he calls me every now and then. We have lunch together in the car. If I don't go to him during lunch time he makes a scene at work.
He follows me literally everywhere I go. Even when I go to the toilet if I'm there for over 5 minutes he comes knocking. When I'm sleeping and he can't sleep he wakes me up just so i stay up with him until he falls asleep and that time I have to go to work in the morning.
This is just the tip of the ice bag. A lot is happening and he has now become a burden. He gets aggressive easily. If we go to the mall and a man looks at me then I am dating that man. When we get home he will beat me up. He has always been abusive but now he it's extreme.
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