HOW I ENDED UP SLEEPING WITH MY HUSBAND'S SNAKE..
I have been holding back on sharing my experience but I realise that this is a very safe space and I was like maybe this is just how I'll find my healing. I see a lot of people laughing or doubting these money ritual gang and I must say I don't blame them,I used to be exactly like them.
So I got married to my high school sweetheart,someone I've known life and loved so dearly. We came from different backgrounds and that led to our goal reach difference. I came from a well off family and he came from a family with just grant dependence. Don't get me wrong I really don't mean it in a bad way,I'm just trying to show you where the problem began.
We passed matric and off to varsity we went. I was always sharing my meals with him, actually I shared everything with him. We chose different courses but we studied together. We were very intentional about finishing school and living.
We graduated and he immediately secured a job. I was overwhelmed by morning sicknesses and I asked my family for a break,more like a gap year from job hunting and they allowed it. My family were very supportive in all kinds of ways,be it emotionaly, financially and physically.
My mom being psychologist and my dad being a general practitioner all was well. I have two older sibling who are funnily both lawyers. And I being the pharmacist. MY boyfriend also was a candidate attorney at the time of my pregnant. Even with such a small salary he decided to build his family a house.
That is what was expected of him and it made sense. I gave birth to our baby and immediately secured a job as a pharmacist at clicks. Within six months of working there I bought my self a car. Something my boyfriend couldn't afford because he had loans to pay.
Little did we know that,that was the beginning of his financial mess. But he ended up paying for lobola in full and we moved in together. I took care of 75% of our finances and that may somehow made him feel less of a man.
He didn't think about the fact that I didn't need to send any money home. The only time I'd say I spent money on my parents is just by taking them out on random family dates and most times my dad would fight me for taking care of the bill yet I was the one who invited them.
Meanwhile with his family he had to be the one paying for everything starting from salt. That made him resent me silently and I didn't even see it because I thought we were a team. I told him from the onset before he even paid lobola that I can help him by taking care of the big bills in our home so that he can lessen his financial stretches.
I was clear about how I will only help with his family where I can but if I was taking over 70% of our bills then it allows him to be able to take care of his family without stretching much. We agreed and he paid lobola. A few months into our marriage it became a problem to him that I only buy his family groceries when I go visit them.
He became someone filled with anger and hatred. I even tried pointing out to him that when I go to my parent's house I buy nothing. But seeing that it made him angry I started sending his mom R1000 to top up the money he sends home monthly.
That alone was straining my budget but I kept it to myself because I wanted a happy home and a happy child. BY the way we were blessed twins,a girl and a boy but unfortunately the boy passed. But his passing didn't make much sense. He slept and just forgot to breath and that was that.
Anyway back to the real issue of how I found myself sleeping with a snake. My husband once disappeared for a whole week and came back claiming that he was dealing with his ancestral calling. Shocker to me because tell me why I've known this man my whole life and he has never showed signs of having such a calling.
At first I thought he was cheating but I took it more serious when he cleared the guests room,totaly emptied it and asked that no one but him should enter. He even removes the window there and got someone to close the gap with a wall. Shocking but for peace's sake I kept my opinion to myself.
A month down the line I started realising that my used pads would get missing and I was no longer myself. I was always so tired and drained especially in the mornings. I started losing weight and became sickly. My daughter used to scream in the middle of the night almost every night but during her screams I'd be having a sleep paralysis.
In the morning I'd ask if I had a bad dream or she was screaming last night and she would say her twin brother was in bed with her doing nasty things to her. Since that day I realised how she became quiet and distant. She was only 5 years old by the way.
I remember how my private part also became very smelly and had gotten amazingly bigger like it didn't grip no more yet my husband now ex never used to be very active. I decided to get hidden cameras and I still can't believe how cruel whom I once meant everything to me changed on me.
Mind you while all this was happening he was becoming rich and with money he couldn't even explain where it was coming. I saw that man stealing my used pads and entering his private room but couldn't see beyond that. I've tried getting a sneak peek in that room and Shame it was forever locked.
In my daughter's room I'd see her screaming but no one was there with her. I also saw a very huge snake leaving the guest room into our room. I saw my husband walking out of our room like a zombie.
The snake got into bed with me and suddenly it was in a human form. A very old and dirty man. I watched him sleep with me till I couldn't open my l.egs anymore. My body was being violated and my husband was just sitting on the sitting room couch like a zombie being controlled by a remote.
If I tell you now that when i saw the videos I became very scared of him and the next morning I took my daughter and moved out. When I arrived home I tried showing my parents the video and it was so embarassing because the snake didn't show up and it was just my husband and I doing the deeds.
I've never been that embarassed and I still have the video but can't share it with anyone as it's now just showing him and I doing the deed but I know what I saw and I wasn't imagining things. My parents got so worried that they had to take me for a brain evaluation and all was well.
I did a fully body Check up and guess what? All my eggs have disappeared. I confronted the now ex husband and he just told me that I am crazy and need to be in psychiatry ward. He didn't even fight for our marriage, instead he married someone else just 5 months after our divorce.
My daughter still visits them and I make sure it's not in that house and she doesn't do sleep overs. What beats me now is the fact that the wife now is losing weight like I did and the skin becoming very pale to show that there is a parasite also eating her up but I can't even say a thing now because it's already too late.
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